Sex-pollen treads a fine line, I can understand the confusion :) What definition do you mean, btw? Because if there's an official fandom handbook, I would die.

i honestly googled it and i checked first page results and a lot of them were going on non-con and rape

i would have just not said anything but they’re using it as a joke and it’s haha funny and the responses i’m getting to being concerned about rape and date-rape are taking things as a joke and trying to instigate it to the point where i’m the villain here idek